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A template for naming what someone might deny or deflect

4 tweets · May 2023 · 73 likes · 2 retweets · read on Twitter

me: nobody wants to alpha-test my template ☹️ Jess: you need to be more clear what it's about: "how to give feedback to somebody about something that you're noticing going on for them, where you suspect that if you try to acknowledge it they'll get defensive/evasive & deny it"

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️ @Malcolm_Ocean ·

currently drafting a Template for How To Gently Blindly Touch the Elephant In the Room Together based on my Non-Naive Trust Dance stuff lmk if you'd like to alpha-test it!

template published as a blog post, link/details here! malcolmocean.com/2023/05/alpha-…

elephant template! @p_millerd @nopranablem @xuenay @AnneSelke @visakanv @JohnStokvis @dismaien @pee_zombie @justavagrant_ @DanielTabakman @multisighuman @CollinLysford @cekaur @laudablelies @john_henry @bo_akimbo @StupendousGrav1 (spare our mentions—don't reply to this tweet)

remaining tags for elephant template! let me know what you think of it! @AskYatharth @nvpkp @jmes @PKrunstein @yellinglouder @VestigialShaman (spare our mentions—don't reply to this tweet)