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Three buttons: what I offer 1-on-1, from trust-dancing to interface design
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Trust-dancing facilitation ~= conflict mediation. I can work with you 1-on-1 to help you orient to a situation with some distrust or betrayal, or I can work live with a pair or group to notice where the collective trust-dance is getting stuck by trying to skip steps. This is relevant to communities, company dynamics, families, friends, and spiritual teacher-student relationships. I'd be particularly keen to mediate in teacher-student stuff, which seems like a good application for my NNTD framework and ideas I've been developing on co-gnosis.
Mating-dance consulting. This is a specific application of trust-dancing to the process of falling in love. The basic premise is that there’s a process you can go through that, if it succeeds, will cause someone to feel like a life partner, but if your commitment exceeds where you are in the process, then things will feel off. I can help you sort out muddles and tangles there. Again, this can be 1-on-1, helping you look at something you don't even know how or whether to talk to your partner about, or it could be working with both of you together, to make contact in a place where your current attempts keep talking past each other.
Internal Trust-Dancing This is a partswork technique I created based on my non-naive trust-dance framework. It’s especially meta and frame-aware and can be useful if you’ve developed resistance to other partswork techniques because some parts of you have been using them to control other parts of you. It's about welcoming whatever's arising, including and especially complaints about the process and/or your/our ability to welcome whatever's arising.
Bio-Emotive or Coherence work, neither of which I’m certified in but both of which I have a fair bit of training in and experience in facilitating, and feel I understand their core magic enough to give someone a taste. (You can't certify magic anyway.)
Workflow or lifestyle design. For instance, helping you visualize your ideal day and set up systems to make those kinds of days happen more readily. I've done a ton of experiments myself, and am pretty good at finding ways to modify tools & systems to support new vibes.
Interface design feedback, whether at early stages (metaphor design) or if you’ve built a prototype and you want me to play with it and use my perspective-taking skills to ask my hallmark cheeky question: “but what if it were good tho?”
Deepening insights based on my writing or videos. If my work has been transformative for you, & you feel it could go further, we can talk directly to explore how it applies to your situation and how you can integrate it with everything else you know.
“How do I plug into the global superorganism?” If you’ve read my 100× vision or otherwise been inspired by my thinking on these topics, we can muse on how your magic might manifest the meta-protocol…