What the Mating Dance course deliberately doesn't cover

Things I'm not going to cover in my Mating Dance course: ✅🪜 what the key steps of courtship are; what to do/not do before getting married 💄💪 specifically what you can do to attract men/women/etc 🐇🐢 what’s too fast or too slow as a timeline 👋☕ how to meet people

Apr 30, 2024

✅🪜 what the key steps of courtship are we're not following a recipe. you and your mating dance partner are tasting the food and improvising til it feels right (or a dead-end). I might say "bland? consider adding salt" the key steps are whatever you—and they—need to feel sure!

💄💪 specifically what you can do to attract men/women/etc you’re not looking to attract half the population, you’re looking to find an exquisite fit with one person. but we can talk about "how to know when 'changing for someone' is wholesome or self-betraying"

🐇🐢 what’s too fast or too slow as a timeline each relationship is different, for psychological & logistical reasons instead of “too fast”, notice the feeling of either of you feeling “not enough” for the other = a sign you’ve ramped up expectations beyond your trust level

👋☕ how to meet people key Q but outside my expertise! I will say: stay away from contexts that discourage being honest about looking for a life partner (this includes many dating apps)

Scarlet Astrorum @ScarletAstrorum · Apr 29, 2024

Women have the responsibility to prevent forever-gf-itis If you’re a woman and you want marriage & kids, bring that up early and often. Leave as soon as you see evidence of his disinterest in those things. Here’s a timeline you can follow or modify to your needs/cultural values:

quoting @VivaldiVril: Serious question: Have you ever seen a study that captures the frequency and length of "dead end" long term relationships? The hearts of millions of women have been shattered by relationships of 5-15 years with immature men that consume almost their entire youth, only to be

reply with any questions you have about falling in love and I'll share my thoughts! to sign up for the course (or learn more about what the course DOES cover & who it's for) go here: mating.nonnaivetrust.dance/?tw=not