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Practicing respect across frame gaps, from inner parts to politics

9 tweets · July 2021 · 32 likes · 0 retweets · read on Twitter

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last night laying in bed I was exploring practicing frame dialogue between various parts well—actually, not even so much actual detailed dialogue as just adopting an attitude of respect across frame gaps

like, from a given perspective where A obviously makes sense and B does not, can I find a way to acknowledge that there are other perspectives from which B obviously makes sense and A does not?

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️ @Malcolm_Ocean ·

it's only possible to be rational within a frame = without a frame, it's impossible to be rational (exoteric meaning 🤔🤓) = within a frame, it's *only* possible to be rational (esoteric meaning 🤫🤯)

so initially I was doing fairly personally-immediate parts, like respecting the experience of a part of me that's feeling sad and lonely, then inviting the sad & lonely part to respect that other parts of me know that I'm loved or whatever

then I was like... what if I just practice embodying the parts of me that most vibe with various more external perspectives, and see if I can respect the other external perspectives they disagree with?

so then for a few moments I explored: - my inner 100k rich kid honoring the perspective of folks desperate for $10 - my inner aggrieved oppressed person honoring the perspectives of people who have more money than they know what to do with

and then... I forget exactly, because it was just as I was drifting off to sleep, but I think I tried on a few different political stances and tried to respect their political opponents' perspectives at the same time

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️ @Malcolm_Ocean ·

In general basically everyone has something to contribute to understanding what's broken, and it's honestly pretty easy to discern as long as you can remember that someone being able to point at a problem doesn't mean that their solution is any good twitter.com/Malcolm_Ocean/…

good practice for any would-be memetic mediator

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️ @Malcolm_Ocean ·

man @cognazor/@JaredJanes/@peternlimberg were so right when they posited that memetic mediators would emerge from people who were ex-[something]s at the time, that wasn't me, & I wasn't interested now I am & I am

pith

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️ @Malcolm_Ocean ·

metta meditation except it's perspective-taking instead of well-wishing