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Goal-Crafting Intensive meta-thread of threads

16 tweets · March 2021 · 51 likes · 3 retweets · read on Twitter

Goal-Crafting Intensive meta-thread! Thread to be ongoingly updated with all of the twitter threads I write related to our epic online GCI workshops we've run for years, around New Year's & at other times. complice.co/event/gci?tw=m…

One of the first threads I did talking about the GCI framework:

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️ @Malcolm_Ocean ·

> How do you choose goals? Glad you asked! We host an online workshop on this every New Year's called the Goal-Crafting Intensive. This year we have 4 sessions—sign up here: complice.co/event/plan2020… Here's a high-level thread on some of what we share in the workshop 👇 1/10 twitter.com/realtimeai/sta…

This thread has a great summary of the basic structure of the workshop:

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️ @Malcolm_Ocean ·

There are still tickets left for both sessions of our online make-sense-of-your-life workshop next weekend! Includes: 📺📄 high-quality content (videos & exercises) 🍅👥 structured co-working on goal-setting & planning 💬💡 live coaching—bypass blindspots complice.co/event/gci2020m…

One of the main confusions people have about "goals" is the idea that you should feel bad if you have them. This & related confusions are cleared up in this 🔥 thread:

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️ @Malcolm_Ocean ·

The term "pre-success failure" from @ScottAdamsSays' book is a gem. His related idea that you should have systems and not have goals is absurd. (have both!) Scott cites Olympic athletes as examples. 🤨 Take 3 guesses what goal an Olympic athlete has... 🥇🥈🥉

Speaking of which, what even is a goal? Here's the definition we use: (this tweet just below is not really a thread, but contextualizes the following thread)

Intend (12/100 threads) @IntendApp ·

Goal = recognizable desired state in the future, that causes you to act differently in the present so as to realize it. If... 🛣️ no recognizable state = "trajectory" 😣 not desired = "should" 👀 not future = "regret" ☁️ no action = "dream" 🤠 actions just for show = "signalling"

And here's a thread that goes into depth about what happens when you remove one of those key ingredients, inspired by people demonstrating what happens to cookies when you change the recipe:

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️ @Malcolm_Ocean ·

1🛣️ no recognizable state = "trajectory" This one is kind of odd to start with, because moreso than the others, it doesn't necessarily lead to wasted effort. In fact, if you want to explore, whether a new city or a new industry, simply following your appetite can be lovely!

Meanwhile, there are a few components you *don't* need in order to have a goal, as far as we're concerned. (this tweet is actually from the systems-vs-goals thread already linked, but contextualizes the following thread)

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️ @Malcolm_Ocean ·

This is a very spacious meaning for "goal". It doesn't require:  📅 a due date (usually embarrassingly over-optimistic)  #️⃣ a numerical metric (which is just a proxy for what really matters)  🏁 a state of finality (it has to be in the future, but it can be ongoing)

And this thread takes each of these:  📅due date  #⃣numerical metric  🏁state of finality and for each one, asks these questions:  • why do we think we need this?  • how can it mess you up?  • when might you want it anyway?

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️ @Malcolm_Ocean ·

This thread is in large part about infinite games ♾ Goals are kind of like games you play with yourself. That sometimes includes finite, bounded games with wins & losses, but the whole thing is a lot more fun if held within a container of infinite games. From Carse's book:

Here's another thread expanding the concept of goal (is goal even the best word? what else might we call them?) which wasn't written to point people at our workshops but is definitely relevant:

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️ @Malcolm_Ocean ·

Realization: the way I relate to my goals on complice.co is… kinda like ritual magic. Basically by naming & enumerating the main careabouts I'm moving towards, I create affordances for invoking them as sources of motivation & clarity. 🧙‍♂️✨ Thread on naming goals 🧵

Here's a thread contrasting GCI with a similar event @fortelabs runs:

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️ @Malcolm_Ocean ·

I have at least personal 2 facepalms from this announcement, maybe 3. 🤦🤦‍♂️🤦‍♀️ I'd actually be stoked to attend Tiago's workshop, but I'll busy that weekend (Jan 9-10)... running my own goal-setting workshop 😆 This was almost averted... 1/ twitter.com/fortelabs/stat…

Relatedly, a thread about how easy it is to not complete courses you sign up for, that reflects on how that implicitly went into the design of GCI, having it be all at once so you either go or don't, and with time to work while there rather than homework.

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️ @Malcolm_Ocean ·

The number of online courses I have signed up for & not actually completed is absurdly high. Especially self-paced ones but even like… I dropped out of @fortelabs' BASB halfway. Watched a lil of @nateliason Roam course. Early backer on @m_ashcroft's AT course, haven't touched.

Anyway, one of the unique things about GCI is that you get DEEP coaching via chat from multiple coaches at once. This isn't just protips: we can untangle major internal conflicts & help you find your learning edge.

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️ @Malcolm_Ocean ·

In this thread, Malcolm is gonna hype up the many coaches we've got coaching at our Goal-Crafting Intensives next weekend & in January. If you come to the event, you get a channel with 6-12 coaches in it answering your Qs in parallel. Let's go! 🔥🤩 complice.co/event/plan2021…

A few months ago I collected a dozen rave reviews, which I'll be adding to as more people share their experiences on Twitter. Will probably also do a testimonials thread of stuff from our feedback form soon too.

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️ @Malcolm_Ocean ·

Thread of ppl tweeting enthusiastically about their experience of attending our Goal-Crafting Intensive. For the first time, we're doing sessions in April, and we've already sold a third of the tickets to returning folks before even announcing publicly!🚀 complice.co/event/gci2021a…

Here's the testimonials thread, ongoingly updated with quotes we get from people at the end of the workshops! @SarahAMcManus put most of these together:

Intend (12/100 threads) @IntendApp ·

“The most well-distilled and well-structured guide to goal setting and system design that I've ever seen” testimonial for our Goal-Crafting Intensive workshop by @m_ashcroft complice.co/event/plan2022…

New thread on coaches, from Mary's vantage point! Some new faces and in any case some new descriptions:

Mary 💝 @mary_bajorek ·

imo the best part of the GCIs are the coaching channels. you & 6-12 coaches dedicated to supporting you in getting clarity, clearing up emotional blocks or designing a productivity system for you. here is a thread of the coaches joining the Sept 24th and 25th GCIs! 👇👇👇

Sarah wrote a thread on this "is a fit" vs "not a fit" question! Some of this is about the content of the workshop, and some of it is also about the format!

Sarah McManus ✨🍲 BOLD SOUP🍲✨ @SarahAMcManus ·

We've got a couple more Goal-Crafting Intensive online workshops coming up, on Feb 18 & 19! complice.co/event/gci2023f… If you're wondering whether it's a good fit for you, scroll down for a 🧵 about who might get the most out of the GCI format & content: