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"Nissing": when a whole violates the parts that compose it

11 tweets · May 2024 · 85 likes · 1 retweets · read on Twitter

if sinning is where parts violate the whole that they're part of there's an inverse error (let's call it nissing) where a whole violates its parts in a way that undermines its health eg autoimmune disorders, exploiting workers/citizens, abusive relationships

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️ @Malcolm_Ocean ·

"sin" as: doing something that might be locally good for you but destroys the environment on which you rely

it's hard to point at nissing, in a way, because it's hard to point at what the "whole" is doing, since in most cases you can say "well isn't it the other parts that are doing that?" if the king abuses his subjects, is the whole doing so? what exactly is? monarchy-culture?

and I don't want to say that it's "justified" to sin against a whole that is nissing against you but it's sure understandable! and I think, in practice, inevitable to some degree. eg a group that will mock your desires isn't one to be honest to.

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️ @Malcolm_Ocean ·

in Original Spin video I said > "Some larger wholes are constantly sinning against their parts, and thereby are not owed [cooperation from those parts]" some contexts, if you support them, will NOT support you! if you can't change that, gtfo! 😬 twitter.com/Malcolm_Ocean/…

humans, unlike cells in a body getting attacked by an autoimmune disorder, can physically leave a group, on various scales

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️ @Malcolm_Ocean ·

as humans, we need other people but if we don't like our current "other people" we can get different "other people"

some scales of this have been blocked for most of the history of civilization, as part of how civilization has maintained its power but a lot is opening up, which is changing culture

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️ @Malcolm_Ocean ·

society is currently in a grand reorganization process around the extent to which the somethings-larger that we want to surrender ourselves to are allowed to bully us twitter.com/MattPirkowski/…

huh, this shift into globalism & pluralism creating space for people to move around is actually recreating an element of the context that enabled preconquest cultures to be so wholesome

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️ @Malcolm_Ocean ·

on the importance of being able to vote with your feet

coercion is impossible to the degree people feel free to just leave

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️ @Malcolm_Ocean ·

pure material coercion requires a substantial physical power-over relationship (⛓️ imprisonment or 🗡️ violence or 🌽 monopoly on goods/info) otherwise the person will simply gtfo tho there's also eg "withholding sex/affection from monogamous partner"... a kind of monopoly there

sinning, even against a social order that doesn't respect you, corrupts the mind/soul, and makes you less whole

Conor @Conaw ·

@Malcolm_Ocean I like this - but it’s missing something Like how the soul morphs through choice, and possibility of gradual corruption of attentional/perceptual schemas Yes I can see a way in which that corruption eventually erodes environment but that’s not the whole issue

thus in general, even if a whole is nissing against you, you will be saner if you leave than if you sin back

Visakan Veerasamy @visakanv ·

reminder for the new year: replying to stuff you think is bad will only show you more of it, this is true on basically all the apps. focus on what you want to see more of and scroll past what you don’t

if you want to help the others who are living in corrupt wholes, make ways for them to leave as well! whether underground railroad or worldview-offramps

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️ @Malcolm_Ocean ·

I've been thinking that we could probably use bespoke offramps for cults, but it seemed obvious to me that they'd need to be written by people who'd left those exact cults, articulating new views that actually transcend & include the old views, not just pay lip service twitter.com/St_Rev/status/…

a good heuristic for healing wholes that can't separate, which fundamentally is "individuals" and "everyone" (all things in between less-so)

Visakan Veerasamy @visakanv ·

when the whole feels damaged, repair begins in the parts. allow *some* part of your self to love *some* part of your self. focus on that, and then expand from that. have that core micro-relationship be the generative oasis from which the rest of your selves bloom and flourish