@hdevalence I dig your display name ∞
@hdevalence I dig your display name ∞
Thread · Frame battles and critiquing in service of understanding
thinking about frame battles I think most arguments about personal or complex topics would benefit from each person assuming that the other has something important & meaningful to tell them but can only speak in Klingon (or some other language you don't know) #metarationality
the key idea here is basically defaulting strongly to an assumption that you don't actually know what the person means, rather than thinking that you know what they mean and they're wrong after all, they think they're right, so if you really knew what they meant, you would too🤯
the previous tweet is oversimplified—of course it is! 🦜 the joys of compression! 🦚 part of the magic of twitter, when it works, actually, is that common knowledge of a character limit encourages a recognition of the very principle I'm talking about here 🕊️
okay, so > after all, they think they're right, so if you really knew what they meant, you would too I tentatively posit: 🟢by the point when you've fully understood what someone else is saying, either it will make sense to both of you or they'll have also realized it's confused
this notion requires that as part of ensuring you understand, you also voice every part of your own understandings that seems to contradict what they know (by this definition of "fully understood", most conversations don't reach full understanding, in case that's not clear)
to elaborate: you have to voice those critiques in order to be sure you understand, because otherwise you'll get an understanding that still seems false, as opposed to one that seems true, which means that since their understanding seems true, you won't have understood! 🙃
but of course maybe you have the missing piece of information! in which case, by you voicing what it is that you know that is currently preventing you from understanding what they understand as they do (including the part where it seems true!) they will learn from you instead
this "critiquing in service of understanding" is a very different concept of criticism than we're used to. it takes for granted the other person knows something and does not attempt to fight their knowing knowings are sacred!
not fighting someone's knowing doesn't mean not saying "I think when people hear you say ABC, they'll think you mean BAD, and thus I think it's misleading/dangerous/etc to say ABC in that way. But I'd love to help articulate what you do mean." twitter.com/chaosprime/sta…
oh whoa! as I was feeling into the type-of-conversation described above, I just realized that it's a deeper and properly meta-rational articulation of what it really means to be honing in the sense I describe in this blog post! malcolmocean.com/2016/05/honing…
this whole thing is very much about metarationality twitter.com/eigenrobot/sta…
and metarationality is very much about frames
yo @jenniferdaniel I'm digging the new 13.1 ZWJy emoji—kudos to whoever made that happen! wondering how hard it would be to make one that combines 🤔+😮 into "whoa..."

hot take: victim complexes are actually baby complexes
@ulkar_aghayeva @jenniferdaniel 🤨

@jenniferdaniel I like emoji kitchen for mockups but for me what makes emoji emoji is almost precisely that they exist perfectly inline in text. so I do have the custom image I made available as an emoji on the slacks I'm on but otherwise... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@jenniferdaniel (I also like the version without eyebrows better. more emphasis on the mouth. less shocked detective, more astonished life update this famous gif was my inspiration ofc)
@ulkar_aghayeva @jenniferdaniel agreed "funnier" in a sense but I prefer the other one for the kinds of things I use this for
shit I accidentally adopted someone else's concept of a good life and was aiming for that instead of my own concept
Listening to a groovy album but it's almost entirely break-up songs with an obsession of fear-you're-with-somebody-else. What's that fear? Fear of being replaceable? New partner makes breakup real? Seems dysfunc from both poly & mono frames 🤔
preempt... what is empting? wait seriously what even is "empt"? ... (from 5h into conversation with @LordChisholm that included a ferry ride extended by an hour because a guy fell off)
@RichDecibels Just found this tweet in a search and wanted to note that I've since edited & posted the Relationship Panarchy write-up to my blog: malcolmocean.com/2020/10/relati…
@visakanv I'm excited you're doing this and also enjoying deeply that I have new levels of self-knowledge that I'm not the shape of creature who would be well-suited to taking on such a research project! And, as such, I'm stoked to read it and to participate in those discussions as me.
Musing about creating a colorblind emoji font that literally replaces all of the peopley people codepoints with yellow smiley-shaped entities. So 👮 would look more like 🤠. (I considered a color other than yellow but most have meanings already: 😡🥵😈👿🥶🤢😨😱)
Stupid question: why are there multi-person emoji for families and not for teams? I can combine 👩+❤️+👨 to represent a couple (👩❤️👨) but I can't combine 👩💻🤝👨⚕️into a single emoji to represent a medtech team. To be clear, I think both are a terrible idea.
@utotranslucence Reflecting on this I think the way I would approach this would look something like: 🏡 the people you live with 💼 the people you work with 💞 your mastermind mastermind = group for mutual support but not interdependent or closely entangled, so not fixated on changing each other
@utotranslucence (mastermind could do things like circling or other relational/therapeutic practices. would ofc fail to be completely disentangled if members fall in love, move in together, cofound a business or hire each other... I think that would happen, so membership might need fluidity)
Retweeted @utotranslucence
My proposal is that for a person to be resilient against both stress and undue persuasion, they should sit on a three-…
@utotranslucence I'm thinking about archetypes and the Ideal Parent Figure protocol, and I think 🏡💼💞 map a little onto "mother, father, extended family & friends". I could talk to my uncle more easily than my parents because his identity wasn't threatened by me doing things they forbade, etc.
@EpistemicHope @DavidDeutschOxf @reasonisfun I also believe a non-silly version of this! Here's one silly way I've put words to it: (silly because absurdly oversimplified to treat the brain as a big undifferentiated mass in a single big conflict, rather than a fractal mess)
@pragueyerrr @LordChisholm it's okay they went and got him 🛥️ but then we had to go back to the port we'd just left (still close, as you can see on the horizon) to ensure he got good medical care. and in the meantime we waited half an hour if I ran the ferry, I'd've had a tiny boat come fetch him, but 🤷♀️

I continue to feel very seen by this tweet.
big if true and I have no reason to think it wouldn't be true even though I have no direct experience working with testosterone or whatever lots of substances can profoundly change sense of self; ones that do this along interesting dimensions are presently usually illegal twitter.com/thom_ivy_1/sta…
.@LordChisholm: "I'm confused about X." me: "more than most people?" him: "I think most people aren't confused?" me: "hmm... they don't think they are. I think most people are confused in the *same way*"
confusion = con-fusion = merging or identity-making of things not necessarily the same Perhaps instead of avoiding map-territory confusions we could embrace them: use "is confused with" instead of "is". Some issues with it but it points at something cool.
Re the original tweet and the tyranny of normality, see also the DSM fallacy:
@chaosprime nice
Just a few tickets left for the April GCIs. I've wiggled another one loose for the Sunday session too, which has otherwise mostly sold out. Online workshop with multiple hours of open-ended time to do what's most important to you. PWYW. no regrets. complice.co/event/gci2021a…
had to think about this for a sec but if I take it seriously I end up with "king is rightful ruler of domain, emperor is conqueror" obviously not that simple in practice but that's kinda what they evoke
@meekaale avocado 🥑
Constraints Rule Everything Around Me 🔥🚀
@meekaale Existential Kink seems like kind of this thing
@Roamfu @lisatomic5 @CompliceGoals we've still got some spots! (if it sells out before you get a chance to get a ticket lmk and I'll squeeze you in ❣️) complice.co/event/gci2021a…
@Roamfu @lisatomic5 @CompliceGoals for more info check out these threads:
Four requirements for a workable life narrative. It must incorporate 1⃣ where you've been 2⃣ where you are 3⃣ where you want to go 4⃣ the setbacks you'll inevitably encounter (if only 1, 2, & 3, those setbacks will pop you painfully & disorientingly out of your narrative)
@alt_tatsu ❤️ lmk if you want to talk I've been thinking it could be time to catch up!
@pervexists69 pick meaningful things to work on that require negative amounts of effort the choice of what to work on (from perspective of worthwhile and not-requiring-willpower) dwarfs a lot of other stuff
@visakanv sounds like you don't want to draw more attention to the law of attraction 🧐
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@nickcammarata Basically nothing in your life is from a random sample. Except duckduckgo search results
@josephdviviano @nickcammarata yeah I was impressed
@QiaochuYuan hardly the level of fame of the others but Gregory Bateson came to mind and it seemed worth mentioning
Retweeted @andy_matuschak
Books as maps! "Today the book is already… an outdated mediation between two different filing systems. For everything t…
idk who needs to hear this but you can't eat the menu it's made of laminated paper, not food
I have been this asshole.
@reweirding hmmm... practice?
Retweeted @captain_mrs
Any virtue that can be described or felt as "forcing" has a better, subtly different and harder to teach version where the…
@reweirding but it's complex and there's aspects of it that are more like this whole thread (which goes way deeper than just this image) although complex, since I was ~teacher's pet til around age 14 when I switched schools, awkward & not super popular
@quotidiania if you consider complaint as perhaps a lesser aspect of hatred ("I hate it when...") then I have this relevant take (is a whole thread)
@quotidiania I think that the default result when people try to meet anger head-on is that someone ends up layering. So people are understandably defended. But the defendedness creates the very problem it's defending against, which is the meta-puzzle:
make all of you egosyntonic
> "Isn’t it better to avoid bad or dangerous ideas altogether? I don’t think so. Even they tell us something, and more importantly there’s a limit to how much damage a bad idea can do as one among many." everythingstudies.com/2018/09/20/the…
> "Being philosophically promiscuous is not a dangerous strategy, it’s a safe one because all the beliefs keep each other in check. It’s the devout monogamists you need to watch out for."
@utotranslucence I feel like I experience this sometimes when dancing.
@cheascake one of my fav photos of me & my partner @SarahAMcManus watching the man burn in 2018 (had to paint over her face for the avatar to have it properly centered on mine without an extraneous eyeball) upgraded from bottom right after @adamjensenn pointed out it was kinda unnerving

@selentelechia which means *you* have unlocked this excellent cover of the Tears for Fears classic (use this link for an epic dancy faster paced remix of the cover: youtube.com/watch?v=O5ds72…) youtube.com/watch?v=ZiiVD2…
@m_ashcroft @LordChisholm relevant to Games Worth Playing and the relative playfulness of my time at your place so far
Retweeted @anonynaut
podcast host: thanks for coming on the show! so what the fuck is your deal? guest: thanks for having me! so I gue- host: no.…
Retweeted @vgr
Case study of a retire-early story that didn’t go as planned. He attributes it to anomie, a breakup, and a health crisis. But it r…
@thepericulum Behavior: The Control of Perception about Perceptual Control Theory, which is a systems-thinking-based model of how thinking-action-perception-motivation-etc works.
@thepericulum Is out of print and not currently very easy to purchase but you can probably find it somewhere 😉
@Jeanvaljean689 @thepericulum +10 to this has spawned dozens of threads about different directions in which it blew my mind
Retweeted @michaelcurzi
The question is whether online community is: 1) an act of birth, natural & good 2) an act of artifice, in the sense of a…
Retweeted @doctorow
Facebook has SUCH a sweet racket. First, they used the Roach Motel model - data checks in, but it doesn't check out - to trap…
@TaylorPearsonMe Neat timing — just a moment ago I made & published this Work With Me page! malcolmocean.com/work-with-me/
@ponekarl ugh agreed. okay will do this ❣️ what are best channels for such a call? (literally international phone call probably non-ideal)
@btohtoh I've never known how to vibe with 6-12 year olds. This was a huge problem when I was that age, but mostly hasn't bothered me since except momentarily at family gatherings etc.
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@m_ashcroft The shit that can be posted is not the eternal shit
@nosilverv @coponder I think this thing about ritual is related to something you commented on some of my writing
Retweeted @nosilverv
Idk man people out here talking about meaning and how it’s NEBULOUS and PATTERNED and WOO and how, just like the Dao, you ca…
@QiaochuYuan the arc that goes from one hand to the other through my chest, which wants to embrace and my cock, which wants to arrive home (cock not necessarily hard! can be a deeper feeling, kind of under the surface)
@uncatherio oooh I don't know what traditional concepts but I feel like I have channeled this god for sure
Retweeted @QiaochuYuan
another sex question 4 u: when you feel sexually attracted to someone, is that feeling something you’re primarily experien…
@jonnym1ller hard to explain in one sentence or convey exactly how to do it, but something like "grok this"
@jonnym1ller maybe more approachable is just to talk about it in terms of perspective parallax
@QiaochuYuan @embryosophy @nihilionist @DarbraDawn nah I get this sometimes although at least some of those times it can have a quality of like "okay, got that taken care of, now I've got SHIT TO DO" ie slightly similar to noticing you've overslept or being like "fuck I've been gaming for hours, time to do meaningful stuff"
@nateliason couple seats left for Goal-Crafting Intensive this weekend! has a very unique structure, designed to mitigate issues with focus & follow-through that other online courses have live parallel chat-based coaching and a choose-your-own-adventure workbook
@hyperdiscogirl twitter is the great outdoors of the internet
Retweeted @nosilverv
Sun Tzu, basic: The supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy without fighting. Contemporary elites, sophisticated: indoctr…
Retweeted @meditationstuff
Take "means" and "ends." Say "money" is pure, fungible instrumentality, pure means. Say the sacred is nonfungible en…
@tasshinfogleman @visakanv I continue to be so delighted that you have a beard btw!

this is amazing twitter.com/Geminiblacicy/…
intense vid - made me think there's a libertarian maxim that says something like "make nothing illegal that is not worth killing people for" ...since that's where law enforcement grounds out. what's the meaning of having cops in this church? fundamentally a threat. hmmm.
@thepericulum wait does it literally say "by 2020" and it was posted this year? wat
@Lola_lmao7 he is like little baby I walk around outside and can broadcast to an entire block.
@captain_mrs Oh hell-yes, eggs and jam is fucking amazing. I've liked this as a kid since ofc toast+jam+eggs is like a diner classic.
one of my classic fave sandwiches, with the reactions I get as I list out the ingredients in this order: - peanut butter ✅ - jam 💞 - cheese 🧐 - green olives 😱
I am so down.
Retweeted @maskys_
[[Open Question]]- how to digitally represent the varying strengths of thoughts in second brains? twitter.com/astralwave/sta…
@hdevalence ...costly signal that the uni didn't write the wikipedia page themselves?
noticing my mind going through this chain a few times a day lately: - am I making good choices? - wait holy shit how cool is it that I get to live a life at all!? - sense of surrender into my actual life, whatever that will be, feeling of trusting god / right hemisphere
tired: security blanket 👶🍼 wired: fabric of the universe 🤩🌌
Retweeted @maybegray
ofc I am already bonkers excited for my next salon Next month I will be hosting my VERY FIRST EVER IMPROV WORKSHOP!!!!! 🤡🙌🤡…
realization: rather than trying to find a collaborator to work with, I want to focus on BEING fun to collaborate with which concretely in this music-related case means making demo tracks that are low-overhead for people to just try mixing/producing!
"Don't you already should have known better by now?" 🙃 - @LordChisholm
that feeling when you had to be there
Neat to watch people I know gradually join apps, eg telegram or signal. What causes that to happen for someone at a particular time? What an odd bit of info non-info.
I get really mad when things are poorly designed (or as I sometimes like to say, not designed at all) but I appreciate that people make stuff at all it's really great
I want a way to index moments in time, in roam. Not timestamp, but like, a page that references "at this particular choice point in my past" I guess mostly I'll do them just by handle, and/or also tag them by date in case the handle's unclear (I have v precise date memory)
Also that it's okay to mean what you mean, and not what someone else thinks you meant or should have meant!
@HiredThought thread
I've added it all up and there is just one thing it's me and it's you, and it's everything ♾ I've checked everywhere and there is no doubt that I've left nothing but nothing out #songing
(I'm intending to put a bunch more stuff in the song that makes it really clear I'm not just pointing at the monist "one thing" but the whole intertwingled mutual causality thing)
part of what makes twitter & QTs so great is how easy it is to let people in on the joke
this tweet (plus a few other elements such as nudging from @LordChisholm) prompted me to play Hades and I'm very glad I did lots of things to learn, about perseverence, making amends, learning, failing, starting over, etc don't hesitate to switch on god mode if it feels sloggy
Retweeted @vgr
Normalcy is simply the majority sect of magical thinking
Have you tried befriending the problem?
.@kevin2kelly: "Although many have tried many times, it is not really possible to command scenius into being." (kk.org/thetechnium/sc…) @visakanv:
@Conaw @sashachapin Yes, important research! How'd it go?
@QueenofSpain @Santepub_Mtl three subtle water pics, coming right up 1 is Vancouver, BC last night 2 is Comox, BC last week 3 is at @MonasticAcademy in Vermont in June 2019

fascinating shape of a trust dance depicted here
@visakanv yep, haven't properly written an intro yet but it's my life's work as far as I can tell however, there is in the meantime this blog post that has a section gesturing at the sort of puzzle I'm puzzling on about malcolmocean.com/2021/01/2020-f…
@visakanv In particular, some of the big questions I'm chewing on wrt trust dancing (screenshot from that blogpost)

@visakanv this makes sense something like this, sounds like
@visakanv there's also this podcast interview about the NNTD I am broadly open to more podcast interviews! joelightfoot.org/thelightfootpo…
@RichDecibels wait, it's not for you?
@visakanv ppl: so what do you do? me: I build a web-app, but that's kind of a side gig to my main job:
@alt_visa @metaLulie did a whole thing about this. lenses & perspective are wack.
what does it mean that we can mean? what are the implications of this? has anyone ever considered
@cognazor punctuated decline + transition makes me think about this thread 👇 I did about self-organized criticality & sandcastles which talks about civilizational collapse as necessarily involving a huge release of potential energy
@DFisman this is a great question and I feel like the concept of what a good society is can go way deeper than a lot of the other answers I've seen so far main issue recurses to "how would a good society *know* that a media outlet were disinforming?" 🔑problem:
Interesting move visa made here. This is an extremely QT-able tweet, very nice standalone, but if you _do_ click it you get a whole in-depth thread. But it took me searching it to QT myself (having seen it enough to know it) before I actually saw the whole thing & its thread!
@visakanv Have you heard Daniel Schmachtenberger's whole thing about this? he has a particular shape that's pretty good, about mutual checks & balances between 3 things (I forget which 3 but ish "government" "markets" "public")
@SarahAMcManus So good! Such great simple interface-with-kids-etc via [[[[metaphor]] design]], driven by the whole self-energizing thing: "he got ahold of it and really went all out".
Retweeted @SarahAMcManus
Woodchipper as a vomiting giraffe (the woodchips spray out the mouth) I love it
Pretty much anything can be weaponized, including the concept of weaponization.
Having said that, some concepts can be weaponized way more than others. (which is also context dependent I guess)
By "weaponization" I guess I mean something like "used in a way that negates one person's reality in favor of another". Which can be direct inciting of interpersonal physical violence, or can just be the everyday subtle unsafety of retriggering
This is (afaict) deeply related to why BvdK said what he did here:
thinking about how small youtube channels are obscure, and musing about like, what happens if you're growing too fast and had a thought something like "well, that's like having too much demand for product — charge more til it evens out" which in this case means… be more weird?
@utotranslucence @corywong is the first person who comes to mind, and he makes FUNK 🎶🎸 he releases an album every few months, and randomly a whole show last summer one of my fav live show recordings: youtube.com/watch?v=24xGp1…
Retweeted @utotranslucence
Eugh love to discover that my strongly held opinions are in fact partial and contextual
Thread · Why punishing bad actors is hard to aim
Noticing I agree/resonate profoundly with everything in this thread, but also (based on everything I understand) I think this pithy statement that leads the thread is perhaps-confused, perhaps-misleading, perhaps-dangerous? (on its own)
Which makes this yet a whole other different interesting move kind of like the one I pointed at a few hours ago. From my perspective, that is!
Part of what I find confusing about the whole thing is that the entire thread is indeed about the far-reaching consequences of bad actors, but way more the sort of thing I'd expect to read from someone who doesn't think more penalizing is really gonna help — which is my view.
Maybe this is (unconsciously) intentional? Designed to kinda pull people in who vibe with the initial statement, but then shift most of the emphasis onto a pretty different frame of the whole thing. Clever if so. Sry-not-sry if my thread blows ur cover🙃
Anyway, part of the whole issue about punishment is that many bad actors are very good at making sure the label "bad actor" gets applied to *other* people, not them.
which is a more general case of this:
Another issue with punishment is that it's really hard to steer! You can't aim it, all you can do is say "away from here!" But in high-dimensional spaces, that's almost everywhere. So it's not stable unless it has somewhere to arrive.
@visakanv *obviously* knows this thing about role-models I talked about with @Conaw. that's kind of his whole thing
re "reward is just the temporary relief of punishment" this is part of what's so important about developing self-respect if you have enough self-respect, others can't yank on you by promising respect in exchange for you doing something they want u don't
Anyway, it encourages me to see Visa also adding this important piece.
Which dovetails with the late James P. Carse's excellent articulation of the paradox of evil.
Does anyone else snooze tabs for a day/week/month/year so you can go say the thing that will be obvious to say at the time in the future when the snooze unfolds? @visakanv seems like this might be part of your game?
it's a pretty good way to clean up some low-hanging fruit in the collective attentional everything and make this whole crazy multiplayer distributed zettlekasten thing even better
this kind of attentiveness and care is even kinda hot tbh, under the right circumstances 😉💘
@visakanv I do too! 😂 also the experience of getting a joke with someone and both of you laughing is almost entirely an experience of meaning afaict
@jameswjesso that's what I mean, yeah
@gregbglw uhh the experience of actualness, from a subjective perspective a unit of communication which is why it's so important that people have the space to not have their meaning overridden by others—a tall order, but doable in the limit afaict
just bought a @dbrand phone cover and I gotta say that the wrap image is totally misleading. looks in the photo like it smoothly perfectly covers the whole thing, but what they sent me is a piece of shit

oh, there's apparently a correct way to install. there were clearly no instructions in the package itself and so I assumed it would be fairly straightforward, not looking at the text that's like "INSTALL: there's only one correct way [link how]"
uhhh okay sure, thanks, this video is kind of helpful, although idk how the fuck they magically slid out the piece of 3M paper from under the very sticky stuff now I'm halfway through this process before anyone told me I'd need a hair-dryer, which the place I'm staying lacks 😡
the product itself is maybe probably at least adequate the howto guide is shit this was clearly designed quite a lot, but idk how they missed all these key pieces given how much they thought about it
@utotranslucence pretty simple: US has lots of domestic manufacturing capacity, same as UK which is also doing really well hard to scale that up in 1 year; the 🇨🇦 facilities got gutted by Harper years ago, I gather plus Canada had a deal with China that fell through
@utotranslucence US has bungled distribution of vaccines compared to Canada, broadly, but it just has way more so it's still going way faster my grandparents have been vaccinated, but nobody my age that I know in Canada has
@vgr "larger laptops" makes me think "laptops that have stretch screens maybe so that they don't mess up peoples' necks as much", although that's already kinda solveable and bottlenecked on many other things
Thread · Six years of makeshift standing desks · 2 of 15 tweets
from a retreat with @LordChisholm & @SarahAMcManus in January (also we've taken to calling it a mechsuit, because I feel kinda naked using my laptop without it)

And then while staying at my cousin's place on Vancouver Island this winter, @SarahAMcManus and I had only one room to take calls so I made a portable keyboard+mouse tray that I could move to a makeshift desk in the hallway in like 2mins nomadism is improving my thing

@gptbr00ke doing amazingly 🔥
@uberstuber @BecomingCritter @michaelcurzi oooof the Tokimedi Unfollow twitter auth needs a lot of permissions 😬 @tarngerine what's the deal?
@QiaochuYuan yep, huge metaphor debt
@nasgyc @QiaochuYuan I'm definitely interested in collaborating on the deep interaction design levels of the thing! I don't have spare capacity for coding or graphic design etc atm. Here's some thoughts I've had already:
@hdevalence haha nice
@kureshii_ @natural_hazard Complice does include a bunch of reviews (daily/weekly/monthly/quarterly/yearly) that can help you see what you've done over the period of time and I'd be interested to know how else it could help with this! maybe a section for like, big wins
@captain_mrs not sure what you're asking the diners I'm thinking of serve eggs as a thing, and they serve toast as a thing, often as a combo, and then they have a little tray of jams & other spreads, that you can put on the toast
On reflection, I didn't pick a very good name for the sparkly pink purple ball thing, which is a shame because it's exactly the sort of thing that doesn't want to be renamed later! (the main issue being the double-color, perhaps)
Maybe I need a canonical actual physical sparkly pink & purple ball. 🤔✨🟣💮 Kind of like the kilogram used to be defined in relation to a particular cube of some metal (tungsten?)
egregome is great twitter.com/eigenrobot/sta…
@brianluidog @yashkaf yeah need for cognition is a thing
@QiaochuYuan @egregirls @harlequinean I love how you're exploring this whole space and willing to be too much as part of finding out. And if something is too much, that's also okay, we'll calibrate 💞 ("also okay" - which I encourage you to trust is true of me or others as much as it seems true, not more)
sometimes the ineffable needs a good effing
any Dapt Funk fans out there? youtu.be/RHu0ALxqUIo
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@tato_tweets @SarahAMcManus Makes sense! I still don't have a long-term home, so it's a huge plus that my desk is made of boxes and fits in my car. Though also I've found once or twice when I've had a desk I could ↕️, I kept distracting myself by doing it every 3 minutes... idk.
@liminal_warmth @visakanv there's an extension called Tab Snooze that is pretty great can definitely overuse it, but it's perfect for stuff like this chrome.google.com/webstore/detai…
@visakanv ah okay cool! I sort of had the impression that was the case too that's really helpful to know about you more explicitly
Last 2 tickets remaining for the April 10 Goal-Crafting Intensive 👀 Could be a date for you and your partner, to plan out your upcoming months/years together! (@jonnym1ller & @kellycwilde had a great time doing this at New Year's with us) complice.co/event/gci2021a…
If you don't already know about this workshop, it's a big container in which we help you spend a few hours thinking strategically about your life on whatever level seems most useful. We have exercises and personal live guidance to keep you on track. twitter.com/theorangealt/s…
if you want to learn a bunch more, check out these threads
@AbhayPrasanna discount, support roam, and be able to go on believer calls etc
@QiaochuYuan @liminal_warmth I have once or twice been able to flirt super easily because a mutual friend tipped me off that she had some level of crush on me. Great situation for practicing; hard to intentionally set up though I guess.
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may all beings be free to make mistakes
you are infinitely nonflaky in relation to whatever your life is deeply about you can't be otherwise
variable reinforcement on whether variable reinforcement works as a strategy twitter.com/artificialnix/…
Retweeted @visakanv
In this bit Eno talks about both scenius and basic income. "The biggest obstacle at the moment is that people have to earn a…
People who think the productivity app space is crowded have a waaaaaaay too narrow concept of the space of possible productivity apps.
@sarah_cone 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 amazing. such a good callback. I remember that article.
do you think you're doing more undersharing or oversharing?
Retweeted @QiaochuYuan
broke: subtle body woke: internet body
@daemonhugger @tallsnail oh it will be
@daemonhugger @tallsnail here's one take of mine one the whole thing:
turns out sometimes the thing you're hating is not doing the work, it's being alone
every experience you've ever had was real but almost none of them imply what you think they imply nor do they imply what other people claimed they imply
what if this hypothetical had been a counterfactual the whole time?
@killerswan I spent a solid minute trying to reason about my own tweet and it felt exactly like this.
@visakanv It's amazing. I can't find a good photo of the finished set up but in 2019 I borrowed my friend's keyboard… …& built an extension for the stand so that it would be at the right height for my standing desk. (Have since moved, so can't take a pic now)

@captain_mrs wasn't sure what to reply with initially but this hit me like TADOW
@BecomingCritter couldn't find a gif that was at all the right thing, but there's something about this that is deeply correct
@amelapay 🤫 / \ \__🤯 _/ / _// \\
@selentelechia iirc not only "yes" but also it aids comprehension
remind me… in which multiverse branch is an oversize light-up plastic pineapple is an everyday essential?

@AskYatharth @tasshinfogleman @m_ashcroft oh nice
Yo @visakanv this event (original thread, wild nonlinear follower growth, and thoughtful correction & reflection thread) feels profoundly relevant to the whole meta-scenius thing that's happening. Curious your take of the effects of this sort of thing on the scene.
don't worry about it man, it's all goo
Not gonna comment on exactly which events or situations precipitated it, but I've had multiple instances of getting sick at a time that felt suspiciously convenient or appropriate, despite an otherwise fairly healthy immune system. Pretty weird to grapple with!
Retweeted @IanColdwater
@Gebraheel @SwiftOnSecurity experience is just a fancy word for having fucked around and found out
@visakanv this feels a bit your-aesthetic 😂
I keep thinking about this and it continues to feel really important and not something most people understand. Maybe will do a thread on it at some point.
Retweeted @eggprophet
@thinkagainer all claims are to be interpreted as gesticulating frantically but with words
This is an interesting and insightful thread, though is doing a weird frame thing re meaning of power. I'd mostly say "separate from Elon in particular, it can be destabilizing for *anyone* to get the amount of power Elon's likely to get as a result of Starlink doing its thing." twitter.com/_danilo/status…
@thepericulum I really love all of @jason_mraz's Love Is A Four Letter Word. Has been a favorite album of mine since it came out in 2012, and I rarely hear others mention it. Has multiple fav songs of mine, and the whole vibe is a coherent expression of love: music.youtube.com/playlist?list=…
@thepericulum Another candidate would be @BT's These Hopeful Machines, which is a beautiful triumvirate of meaningful lyrical songwriting, experimental yet deeply listenable electronica, and 5-12min songs that have a level of slow development more typical of classical. music.youtube.com/playlist?list=…
@codexeditor meanwhile Vishnu, The Preserver:
Retweeted @paulkreinerhere
Perhaps this explains the strangeness of reading on a screen: the page that receives our projections is ephemeral, gon…
@MasterTimBlais @goblinodds @thepericulum @acidshill it's possible to have full-body orgasms as a man various ways to approach it but the main one that has worked for me is: 1. get head from someone who loves giving it 2. relax everything as much as possible 3. gradually start breathing more intensely while muscles relaxed
@MasterTimBlais @goblinodds @thepericulum @acidshill the effect, as far as I can tell, is that your parasympathetic nervous system is strongly activated by the relaxing (which on its own means indefinite pleasure without cumming) then your sympathetic gets more activated by the heavy breathing. both active at once is a whole thing!
@MasterTimBlais @goblinodds @thepericulum @acidshill and then hyperventilation + pleasure + orgasm often results for me in full-body tingles, including sometimes in my teeth, and sometimes my hands spasm for a good minute and I can neither fully close or open them utterly overwhelming & ecstatic!
@pragueyerrr old favorite album of mine that I've recently returned to
@visakanv hm, trying to guess where I might be on there 😛 maybe "early patron, constructive support" 🧐 I've been digging the mutual ambition support between you+me+@m_ashcroft lately also 🎶 tomorrow there'll be more of us 🥂
Retweeted @captain_mrs
June 3. I tried out Complice. @Malcolm_Ocean made a great tool that has been useful to me in refining how I achieve my goa…
so worth it
@tasshinfogleman :thinking-heart:
Retweeted @uncatherio
I am going to miss this lemon tree when we move away 😢 Yesterday I pruned it for the fourth, and last ever, time. To the…
@sashachapin this blog post link now broken, idk what's going on but some stuff links back here so you might wanna set up a redirect or something I can't find the post with google either (searching just `sasha chapin tim ferriss`)
@MasterTimBlais @pragueyerrr I've collected a few tweets about the power of Saying Things To People in a thread here, which includes @QiaochuYuan quoting @sashachapin talking about the impact @tferriss had on him.
@MasterTimBlais @pragueyerrr @QiaochuYuan @sashachapin @tferriss particularly relevant is this tweet in that thread:
@uncatherio @SarahAMcManus I think you'd like this thread on multiple levels 🌱💚🧠
GTD vs Zettelkasten: GTD = Execution: you know what to do to get a result 😤 Motivated by satisfaction of progress & completion 🏁 Finite games ZK = Exploration: action & result unclear (startups, research, creative) 🤯 Motivated by excitement of discovery ♾ Infinite games
My app, complice.co, despite being oriented towards "goals", is actually pretty compatible with infinite game-playing and deep improv. The goals are sort of a lens of what kinds of directions you're aiming, but the whole app is about aliveness vs exhaustiveness.
I got a 4k monitor (28" asus) this week and *wow*. If you spend most of your day on a computer (who doesn't?) and you have a spare $400 that you'd like to turn into an immediate quality of life improvement, I highly recommend it. = permanently polished glasses for digital world
@michaelcurzi I've started owning this as "eutopia". Perhaps "syntopia" would be a better term, given the homophonetics. But there's something to be said for reclaiming.
@michaelcurzi Also I've been working on some principles for eutopia (to avoid those dystopias-that-claim-to-be-(e)utopias) and this one seems front & center:
In particular, unlike eg @bmndr or habit-tracking apps, which are about doing the same specific things consistently, @CompliceGoals steers you towards choosing each day what makes the most sense to focus on, which can vary day-by-day based on appetite or opportunity.
And unlike apps that are oriented towards planning out all of the steps in advance (which is basically only realistic for projects you've done almost identically before) Complice just says "okay, you want to get <there>—what makes sense from your current vantage point?"
@thepericulum @MasterTimBlais @goblinodds @acidshill Very keen to discover if the steps I described above are sufficient to induce it reliably for you! Please report back with your research findings 🧪💦📋
@visakanv @m_ashcroft nice. makes sense you'd be tracking the value of early patrons differently!
Retweeted @IntractableLion
I'm at the dystopia I'm at the utopia I'm at the AR-mediated combination utopia-dystopia
Retweeted @mattgoldenberg
Just recorded a *spicy* episode of Transformational perspectives in which @Malcolm_Ocean and @adamjog give their perspe…
I once looked at a friend of mine and realized a particular way in which if he were actually the way my model of him was, then he wouldn't exist. (Basically part of me was modelling him as easy to manipulate—so much so that he'd've been completely taken advantage of by now!)
@visakanv Unlearning Coercion is 3rd ebook? In any case, whatever you're doing under the heading of "unlearning coercion," I'd recommend you check out Perceptual Control Theory. Ooh—actually! …let's have a recorded convo where I share my take on how it's deeply relevant!
Retweeted @visakanv
A thing my ex-boss got me to meditate on (not literally, but I think about it a lot) is that product-market fit heals and for…
@michaelcurzi Yeah, in practice the "no, by definition it's not that" has to be articulated uniquely to each person, for them to actually trust it. You have to figure out how to say it in their language. Which is a fractal of the whole eutopia puzzle! (same as this)
What's an old tweet of yours that clearly comes from a different paradigm than the one you're operating from now? (Optionally: what did you learn in the meantime, and how?)
@visakanv @m_ashcroft and this is still early days —
@imothyjones @ReachChristofer @mattgoldenberg +1 to the relevance of non-coercion to all this if you wanna go a layer deeper to this convo, you'll be excited to see this convo where me & Matt & @adamjog deconstruct the whole process (this is just a lil excerpt)
@ReachChristofer @Meaningness I've gone deep into both Davids' work! My sense is critical rationalism is still confused in the ways rationalisms are. Unlike eg bayesian rationalism it exalts the role of the right hemisphere (not in those words), but it needs a figure-ground inversion. RH is primary.
@ReachChristofer @Meaningness That's not a very precise critique, ofc. I've written a bit here though, summarizing then stating a few particular places where my viewpoint diverges from Deutsch's. My critique, not @Meaningness's, though I do cite Meaningness at one point in it.
@nibrasibn @pragueyerrr found myself thinking you might dig this song youtube.com/watch?v=Sc2BK0…
@MSlavin had the same thought when I put in my own handle!
broke: I am you and we're both god woke: each of everybody's fractal parts is god
I'd love to see like a watershed diagram for which city people are referring to if they say "the city" or "I'm going to the city" because eg Waterloo is the same size as Halifax, but if you say "the city" in Waterloo, you mean Toronto. whereas Halifax is it for nearly all of NS
@TylerAlterman I've found some video games have taught me important things—given me useful metaphors for basic structures ubiquitous in real life. Lately this is particularly Hades (re learning, rebirth, perseverance, forgiveness, etc) and Factorio (re automation, prerequisites, space, buffer)
@TylerAlterman Programming an app that people use. Working on complice.co has been at times for me very dopaminergically satisfying and I enjoy doing it for hours on end. Has tighter feedback loops than writing prose or many other creative activities.
@selentelechia me, signing onto twitter for the first time today, well-past my bedtime already, and seeing this toward the top of my timeline with context only that it was some sort of shitshow on twitter
@selentelechia otoh, this 👇 was even higher on my timeline and maybe whatever happened here is actually important for me to know about basically trusting that I'll find out about it if I need to though, one way or another
A puzzle for photoshop or gimp wizards: how to *flip* hue? I know how to *rotate*, but I don't want input+y | 360 I want 360-input Feels like something like Invert + Value Invert should do it, but VI makes my image totally black so 🤷♀️
@michael_nielsen @BewilderedBear1 @lisatomic5 I have theorized about what's going on here! one of the most common sources of demotivation is inadequate feedback loops, and
Getting on the same getting on the same page page. We are getting on the same getting on the same page page.
Retweeted @uncatherio
every turn away from the compass of what you truly want and feels holistically right - no matter why you felt you "had to"…
@lisatomic5 I agree that getting into writing flow can be really hard. The best technique for getting unstuck that I'm aware of I call the "magic parenthetical of possibility"
Retweeted @eigenrobot
everyone is trying to restore themselves to wholeness of being in a single fell swoop. instead I would recommend shadow i…
life is an endless series of overcorrections
Retweeted @SarahAMcManus
Yes
@SarahAMcManus me having seen this 👇 tweet is, I thiiiiiink, why I referred to this "yes" creature as a "bot" 😂😂
Thread · WordPress auto-guesses posts from partial URL slugs · 5 of 6 tweets
WHOA. Just accidentally discovered a gamechanging feature about WordPress. If you type a short url it automatically guesses which page or post you might be referring to based on the slug. I put in malcolmocean.com/ar and it took me to my archives page (normally /archives) 🧵
afaict from 2 experiments, this is using some sort of slug-starts-with logic (slug is the part of the post/page url that is human readable) eg this post is /a-laptop-employed-as-a-nightlight/ and /a /a-laptop redirect to it, but /nightlight 404s malcolmocean.com/2015/11/a-lapt…
this is gamechanging because it means I can link to any of my posts, from memory, without needing to look up the url, as long as I know what the slug starts with (uniquely!) ...in particular, you don't need to know the date, also!
I manually made malcolmocean.com/grow redirect to this particular url, but as of now it LITERALLY ALREADY WOULD DO THAT since /grow is short for /growth-mindset-reframing (/gro works) (this likely wasn't true in 2014 when the post was published, fwiw) malcolmocean.com/2014/07/growth…
I tested this on another wordpress site I know that's not even running the latest wordpress (v5.0.12) and it also works there. I'm not the sort of creature who enjoys looking up exactly when this change was made or what it's called, but I'd be curious to know it if you 🐇 ⬇️ 🕳️
@visakanv oh interesting. but it does require the /blog/ element for yours, I notice hm hm do you do your slugs with that stuff in mind?
Thread · WordPress auto-guesses posts from partial URL slugs · 1 of 6 tweets
ohohoho this explains a thing I was confused about awhile ago which was that both /archive and /archives seemed to take me to my archives. I thought maybe that was some sort of special-case thing and didn't investigate deeply
@visakanv aside—this is a great preface and I love the concept including the recursive loopiness of the whole thing but it leaves me wondering "should I try reading Orwell first or you first?" and feeling like you might have an opinion on that but not have expressed it (maybe you're ambi)

my sweet potato 🍠: What is my purpose? me: You pass butter.

@harmonylion1 Curious which other common threads you've noticed!
This self-love tweet did a really important update for me and I want more people to see it and I also want to loosen a reification I gave it when I read it. He says "feels kind of like", not "replaces". Nothing below implies whatsoever not *wanting* to have someone's company.
May you find time to catch your breath May you answer a big question satisfyingly May you have the chance to share what you know May you gladly remember something you gladly forgot May you enjoy enjoying things you enjoy enjoying May you experience a vibrant life on your terms
@quotidiania Such beautiful cosmic poetry that you found this again so immediately, given the original context:
@quotidiania I felt that in your ❣️ (could have been more clear that the QT was in part for others' benefit)
@m_altcroft work is fun! okay to do it as much as you want! you are free to do more and get nonlinear payoff! when I get the chance, I take great pleasure in working hours on Complice that would probably rightly be illegal to require an employee do (eg 128h of actual work in 8 days)
@m_altcroft that's one lens. another lens is like "yeah man, maybe you're out of practice catching your breath—this is common and ceasing to be on someone else's clock does not automatically update the set-point for how much slack is good for your system"
@nosilverv I used to find these metaphors useful but I have since come to think they likely often reinforce tangles. Addiction connotes a kind of inner struggle, that most people understand through a goodself-badself language. If {me} outputs {think} as best strategy, it does! That's okay!
@nosilverv Am thinking of Biology of Desire, and reframing addiction as something like a learning puzzle that many people go through (some more painfully and costly than others) as part of calibrating motivation control systems. (tagging @meekaale who's been reading that book lately)
this tweet is pointing at an important thing that seems probably true in some sense (tbd how) and it's also satisfyingly evocative with its image even if the image has much to be desired in terms of being adequately precise and complete, and is in some ways wrong or misleading twitter.com/mutual_ayyde/s…
@meekaale @nosilverv Yaaaaaaas v good. Tweet your trajectory with it! Curious where you're starting, readingwise. I'm getting @LordChisholm and @Morphenius and a few others into it.
@yashjaing @fortelabs wat do I search for this gif plzthx
@fortelabs not what you asked for but here's what I feel like when I take a break from being in peak flow state to go to the bathroom
Oh man I have been forgetting #TwitterDayOff Tuesday but it is now and I am gonna go do it. Tag yourselves, I'm not in the groove to go dig up ppl to tag at this moment ❤️🙏
you have to do something in particular but you don't have to do anything in particular
@pocketsfop how'd it go?
@m_altcroft yes, seems right. vibe with the ideas & community. invest in the generator of the thing people want to pay for, and thinking more about money can come later down the line
@visakanv Got halfway through and find myself interestingly definitely agreeing with the basic premise that much can be done to consciously nurture the kind of language we want, while disagreeing with some particulars. Context of politics matters, I think. Politics should be scrutable.
@visakanv eg I'm making a very similar point here:
@visakanv to this bit from Orwell

Fucking amazing energy in this thread. Not sure all of this would be feasible or good but it's definitely not boring and most of the ideas aren't obviously bad.
@fortelabs nice. part of the puzzle with 2 & 5 is that pointing at these truths usefully (even internally) often requires constructing an entirely different frame than you're using already, so that you can actually see them.
@djmicrobeads The Master and his Emissary is a fav 🤯 of mine.
@lonemapleleaf @pragueyerrr we're the folks who live in the top left here twitter.com/kyosaku_jon/st…
Retweeted @seconds_0
Things I Would Do as President of the US (not boring) 1. Aggressively weaponize immigration. Just brain drain the world as…
@visakanv right and it takes a certain amount of skill to get up to high speeds in the first place (particularly if any steering required during acceleration)
@visakanv feeling this vibe with some of the songs I've been writing, which are definitely channelling an energy of how I want my relationships to feel, and intended to seduce people who resonate with it into relationship with me. (not per se just romantic relationships, tho also that)
Twitter bio idea you can take if you want: “The views expressed here do not necessarily represent the unanimous view of all parts of my mind.” (I had this as my facebook bio a few years ago)
Just ordered some new contact lenses and I'm experimenting with getting half 0.25 weaker than my current ones. They might be noticeably worse for being out in the big wide world (we'll find out!) but I'm sure they'll be just fine for days spent at my computer.
The ones I have now are -3; I got half -2.75 and half -3 with this order. I had -3.25 a couple years ago and -3.5 before that. When I got the -3s, my A/B test on -3 vs -3.25 was an even split so I opted for less correction.
I once tried asking about an optometrist about this theory and she politely told me it was complete bullshit. But I've seen remarkably little else to explain wtf else could cause worsening vision in youth. (have also heard "reading in dim light" 🤷)
@alt_visa I'd been procrastinating on some kinds of play for a long time, and have been doing a lot more the last weeks, and it feels really good. Still feeling into what balance looks like! And learning to catch my breath.
@samlearns @visakanv 😂 @SarahAMcManus didn't you make a sacrificial anode graphic?
#nowplaying I tear up almost every time I get to this lyric in Some Nights by fun 🥲 my heart's breaking for my sister and the con that she called "love" but then I look into my nephew's eyes man, you wouldn't believe the most amazing things that can come from some terrible lies
@nibrasibn what's your arc been like with it? making progress?
@visakanv given about 10-15s of thought: how many years do you think a trillion seconds is?
@visakanv nice! I thought of it because of the 30,000 ofc. I was somehow still shockedpikachu.jpg when someone said "a million seconds ago is earlier this month (11 days). a billion seconds is 31 years ago. a trillion seconds is... 31,000 years ago" just like, totally different scales.
@QiaochuYuan @LordChisholm - relevant to stuff we've been talking about
An eyemask as a VR headset for your own dreams.
@hewrin_10 @floidberg @BecomingCritter beautiful ~= pleasing to the eye (or ear) or mind or soul attractive ~= attracts you, draws you in, creates magnetic pull often we're attracted to beauty, ofc, but I'd say there's lots of people who I think look good but I'm not attracted to them sunset can be attractive tho
Aha, very satisfying. Most people don't realize that the strategic landscape pushes back. If you try to do something and others don't like it, they'll counter. Ideally this eventually adds up to a better world, not just tug of war. Make ideas undiscussable? People make journal:
This gif depicts the zero-sum tug-of-war version where you never get anywhere.
This Dr. Suess quote somehow resonates. Not the bit about the bat, per se, but the Now my troubles are going to have troubles with ME! as just like, a big mood.

For more on "the strategic landscape pushes back", I think Daniel Schmachtenberger's video here talks about it. (If you watch it and it does, reply here with the relevant timestamp, tho it's a dense video and may be hard to jump in partway.)
mood
@ReachChristofer @Meaningness I got into this software/hardware things with other CritRats haha. Y'all take that assumption way too seriously. The brain has the capacity for profound generality, but it's also not an undifferentiated mush of computation. Lots of stuff hardwired for speed & energy efficiency.
@ReachChristofer @Meaningness In other words, many of your ideas are actually precomposed by the hardware of your brain. Have ranted here about the "brain is a computer" confusion in a slightly different context.
@ReachChristofer @Meaningness The left & right hemispheres are both involved in almost all of cognition, but in profoundly different ways, and brain damage to one vs the other produces very different kinds of surprising behavior. RH strokes → anosognosia:
@ReachChristofer @Meaningness Your "ideas (defined as anything that has an effect on thinking)" but excluding the structure of the brain (which obviously has a huge effect on thinking) seems exemplar of a common rationalist blindspot that thinks that rational thought exists independent of medium/context.
for future reference, there's now a thread on this:
reading @balOShere's notes on his experience of complice.co onboarding > it's like he's using basic logic to make me not dislike this thing. i dig. My design philosophy is "what if you actually considered what you're doing and made it good?"
Retweeted @Prigoose
Corridors were invented in 1597 Everything around you was once a concept in a human's imagination
@nat_sharpe_ totally, and then you get the puzzle... what game do you play to figure out what game you're playing?
Thread · Recording song demos to find music collaborators · 2 of 8 tweets
goddamn, the track I started with for this turns out has a bunch of TWO BEAT bars like every verse or chorus has an extra 2 beats tacked onto the end. which is tripping up my metronoming. not sure how to fix in bitwig but I'm making progress. (cc @SeanMombo @mayfer)
so far I think I'm just gonna put the whole thing in 2/2 time (so the difference between the 1 and the rest of the beats is less distracting) and not worry about the slippage and make a lil v1
@SeanMombo using a metronome tick while recording at all in order to have a consistent tempo (tho not having it be audible in what I would share) the videos I was recording before were 100% acapella straight into camera + wav file. no DAW or even audacity, definitely no click
@harveykrishna_ a few ways I could answer it; this tweet is one:
@harveykrishna_ This is another:
@mbateman @ZacharyHundley Similar confusions to the idea that eg earth is "floating in space"; "floating" conveys a whole bunch of metaphorical connotations, *some* of which apply (it's not rigidly affixed to anything else) but others of which don't (it's not suspended) related: youtube.com/watch?v=Q1lL-h…
@mbateman You might like this take on the brain thing:
Thread · Recording song demos to find music collaborators · 1 of 8 tweets
okay, have finished an initial version & sent it to a couple people. may post tomorrow!
@nibrasibn I haven't noticed anything in particular tbh! I don't have an internal experience of my uncorrected vision improving since I'm almost never paying attention to what I'm looking at unless it's up close or I have glasses/contacts on. What prescription did you start at?
@NibiruDakini the AI/computer that may think it's doing the right thing but clearly has a different understanding of that than humans
Very excellent speculative thread that wanders from serious constructive criticism about NFTs (& their metaphors) into geospatial digital spaces as a medium for non-fungible art & property. Top-notch Venkat-thinks-out-loud thread.
@nibrasibn I'm reflecting also that it'll be time for new glasses soon! The ones I have are 2016 and they're at least still -3.25 if not actually -3.5. Hmmmmmm. They're fun glasses though. Here's me with a cat whose coat matches my outfit:

Retweeted @metakuna
where am I based? Everywhere I go 😎
@metaphrand_ @hippieforlife11 aaaaaaaaaaand now we've got the challenge of partial control accepting death was hard enough when it felt utterly inevitable malcolmocean.com/2019/10/the-ch…
@visakanv making & releasing audio tracks I've done a lot of songwriting (lyrics+melody+etc) but a lot hasn't really seen the light of day yet because I haven't been able to produce finished tracks am looking for direct collaborators but also just more people to vibe with am makin demos
@metaphrand_ I feel this too and I also find myself feeling like it's going to be a foundation on which deeper novelty can be sought.
@this_is_silvia Mood. From my 2017 fb posts: > Current status: wanting to close all convos (incl. serious emails) with "I love you"
> There’s a kind of “Golden Rule” that’s in place if you participate in tech: “Treat others as if they might be the next great founder.” Status illegibility is a virtue. alexdanco.com/2020/01/23/soc…
same.energy from @visakanv in how he's cultivating this emerging meta-scenius (Visa you'll want to read the above post if you haven't already — it applies a lot to our twitter scene & your FANdom.)
@visakanv I didn't coin it but I've been collecting [[you can just tell people things and change their lives]]
@uberstuber IT ME. Might be there, not yet sure if it makes sense for my weekend. Very glad this is happening tho.
Retweeted @uberstuber
Have a growing list of unfinished online courses? I'm hosting a 2-day workshop next weekend! Hop on a zoom call and work a…
@DashBarkHuss @FreddieCarthy @BackyardBrains @arduino @girlscouts oh shit, very cool! I want more stuff like this to exist. We need some early stage pre-pre-pre-crowdfunding. what would the cost be? (roughly)
@_holyweather @made_in_cosmos but if we do we won't die trying, we'll die satisfied & triumphant
@made_in_cosmos as far as I can tell yes
@visakanv also my experience haven't been that into jewelry lately for various reasons but yeah it does require taste tho
waaat thaaa faaaak I think it's worth seriously asking at what level of fraud would it be inconsistent not to arrest people for stuff. I say inconsistent because idk if it would help—punishment usually just leads to sneakiness, not meaningful change, & incentives are fucky.
Retweeted @Anthony_Etherin
ADRIFT (Triolet) We don’t belong—yet here we are, adrift atop a cloud so rare and wonderful it’s flown too far. We do…
I'm taking a "day off" tomorrow. I don't yet know what that means except: - I've been avoiding intending or scheduling anything - I'm going to start the day with no browser tabs open (though I'm sorely tempted to have this be the sole open tab👇 ...mood!)
@tasshinfogleman Mostly planted a ton of seeds! Dunno if the W only counts when I get to eat the fruit or not. Oh I flirted on a kind of cosmic level with someone I've been wanting to seduce for a couple years, and that went well though still very slowly at this point.
Another example of the strategic landscape countering certain dimensions of the discourse:
Retweeted @captain_mrs
One of the reasons I love this post so much: it describes a world which is the opposite of the crab bucket Brb packing my…
@Morphenius I think most of the events in question are years ago (2016 election shit). It's just getting declassified now I guess.
@HanjoYoutaku Resonating on one level but also: I've experienced multiple things with culty dynamics where the leaders were indeed consciously *intending* for people to have independence & self-reliance, but in practice generated a lot of dependence.
@HanjoYoutaku And part of this is hard to escape as a leader/founder/etc because (as the Guru Papers and other sources describe) people are often desperate to have someone they can feel dependent on, for various reasons (attachment, internalized authoritarianism,.)
@HanjoYoutaku this particular tweet ^ is way too imprecise and contradicts what you wrote elsewhere in the thread about making friends ➡️ it should feel bad to say to a friend "I don't want any contact with you" 😬 but perhaps a different kind of bad. shouldn't feel like you become a loser.
@michalkorzonek what'd you build this with? I haven't seen enough mapping softwares that adequately let you draw boundaries *around* multiple things, not just edges connecting them
imsrywut you're not allowed to be on postrat twitter if you're gonna gatekeep who gets to be on postrat twitter 🙃 twitter.com/Virtual1nstinc…
@OriginalStacia I went to some of their events back in 2013 and they were legit onto some good sex magic! Being onto something is key to how many cults get big. But then they don't know how to untangle shadow stuff or adequately dialogue conflicts, so they explode dramatically.
be prepared
be prepared
@quotidiania @s_r_constantin has a great essay on how OT-God is the OG abusive parent. srconstantin.wordpress.com/2017/09/12/pat…
@MatjazLeonardis RT is literally signal boosting, with some nebulous filter for "the kind of stuff my account is about" although that's hardly a unitary theme like is "am I glad this tweet exists?" - partially used to let people know I read them, also
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Apropos nothing in particular can we please for the love of God stop pretending that good things and bad things are disj…
I'm bought in, so I bought in! Pretty stoked about the campus idea, ngl. I feel like Conor's the most in touch with a particular arc of the possibilities the future holds, and I want him to have the resources to realize his vision.
Since @Aryeh___ isn't on twitter much these days, I'm gonna take on sharing some of his posts here. This one is about learning partnerships and the importance of having someone to figure everything out with. imaryeh.com/blog/ay-chavru…
@QiaochuYuan talking about me & him chavrusing a piece of writing by commenting on it out loud and inline in a google doc:
So much is gonna become possible as people take learning into their own hands with media like articles & videos & interactive demos. And chavrusas. Being able to seriously question things, and have a fellow learning to question them with, seems to me a vital part of learning.
...and it now seems to me crazy-making that in a typical school or other learning context, the students are expected to just accept what the teacher says without being able to turn to their friend and go "this seems sus to me, what do you think?"
tragedy says "for every up must come a down" comedy says "for every down must come an up" 🎭 the shapes of the mouths on these masks depict this 🎭 ↗️↘️☹️ ↘️↗️🙂 there is truth to both
@MarcGafni has a thing a transition from pre-tragic to tragic to post-tragic consciousness (which intriguingly has a comedic shape 🎭) The realization of scarcity & suffering ends the naive pre-tragic experience, but there's further to go! marcgafni.com/from-pre-tragi…
@xuenay the sandwich thing you pointed at here prompted me to tweet this: (something I've been thinking about a bit for awhile — I didn't come up with it I don't think, but I sort of rediscovered it in my own experience)
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ACID SHILL’S LIST OF COOL HOLIDAYS: -> ¡reply to this tweet with your suggestions! <- - armistice day (cf …
ah man I forgot about Tuesday #TwitterDayOff again my life doesn't have a lot of weekly rhythm and I don't have a reminder set, and it's felt less important as I haven't been on twitter as compulsively in the last month or two in the first place anyone want to take the mantle?
ie does someone else want to take on tweeting about #TwitterDayOff Tuesday and @-mentioning the folks who have participated in the past to see if they want to again?
@maybegray you're gon' be free so soon 🚀 youtube.com/watch?v=klVADg…
@pragueyerrr I am Malcolm, God of wonders of course
@eigenrobot my parents wrote down some funny stuff that we did or said, which I enjoyed hearing about as a teen one time after the DST change, my mom was trying to put me to bed and I said "it's not bedtime yet—the colors are still out!" 🤩
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help i'm running out of ways to say i love my life and think everyone is beautiful
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Explosive people with poor boundaries are easier to deal with than people-pleasers with poor boundaries because after…
@rmbalt there's also gotta
@uncatherio @chaosprime @acidshill Wow damn, agreed. Hey @NibiruDakini this 👆 (scroll to top and read down) seems very much up your alley if I understand your alley at all (which I'm not sure I do, but here's 👇 part of what's inspiring the connection) twitter.com/NibiruDakini/s…
@ChanaMessinger Quite well, though slowly. Trying to untangle a meta-pattern that seems to somewhat resist uncovering things because it thinks I would be bad/abandoned if things got uncovered. Making headway.
Does anybody know the source to this? I'm sure I read it somewhere, maybe in a book or paper excerpt that @fortelabs tweeted a couple years ago.
@mesolude One huge one: under what conditions would you move to a different city? Which climates or regions would be yay vs ok vs no-go? doom if both people have strong constraints here and they aren't compatible (eg one "would defs move for dream job" & one "must stay in hometown")
@mesolude it's particularly relevant for marriage ofc, but it applies to trying to create community of any kind, honestly I've been thinking about this a lot recently in the context of my recent move from a long-time community out here to British Columbia (story) malcolmocean.com/2021/01/2020-f…
@prerationalist hiding in plain sight twitter.com/search?q=from%…
@made_in_cosmos 👏Legitimate 👏 Peripheral 👏 Participation 😂 metarationality.com/upgrade-your-c…
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probably not super clear. related example: fundamentally what makes something pornography is that it promises your body yo…
my "day off" wasn't that different from most of my days, but felt good felt really nice to wake up with no browser tabs and to be fairly single-tasky and not assume that just because I was starting something I would finish it
I'll never know, but I'm so curious... what's the most historically important text message that's ever been sent from someone sitting on the toilet? 🚽
Retweeted @Meaningness
🆕🛬 “Upgrade your cargo cult for the win”: If you create a good enough airport—the cargo of breakthroughs WILL come. https:…
Just because one state of being is vaster than another doesn't mean that the bigger one can hold the smaller one. (Remarkably obvious when stated yet remarkably easy to miss in some frames — I missed it for years.)
hmmm I'm concluding that "political" has become very motte-bailey as a concept (not sure it ever wasn't) theverge.com/2021/4/27/2240…
@Conaw @RoamResearch Holy shit yes 💯 I have been wanting this. Just this week was trying to figure out where to have text comms among a small group that's not on the same slack anywhere, and we concluded: • Signal for coordination+notifications • Roam for actually discussing+modelling stuff
@Conaw @RoamResearch But OBVIOUSLY this wants to be all in one place, and having that be totally integrated with Roam would be perfect. Stoked that it's in the pipeline for 2021.
Retweeted @Malcolm_Ocean
Are "different" and "distinctly different"…
Why is the GitHub forks view *so goddamn bad* at showing *why* somebody forked the repo? Seems like such an obvious win to be able to quickly check if someone has solved a problem you have or made some expansion you're considering making.

This is sliiiiiiiigggghttly better. But still close to useless most of the time, and unworkable when there are 100s of forks.

oh shit just realized that the pink-purple sparkly ball thing is meta un-self-explanatory. if all you know about it is that all you need to know about it is that it's not self-explanatory, you know what it is
April showers bring May growers.
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@altbasket @CompliceGoals If ethics is about flourishing, then this Johnstone quote, repeated in “Improvisation,” shines ligh…
@startuployalist @SarahAMcManus do I recall you looking into something that was Somatic + IFS? And was it Somatic IFS or something else?
@ChanaMessinger @hyperdiscogirl I liked: > In this book I refer to sources using female pronouns. A gender-neutral writing style felt less engaging to me in this context. Of course, people of all gender identities can be fully creative, yet I think of the role of source as having a powerful feminine energy.

@ChanaMessinger @hyperdiscogirl (from @TomNixon's workwithsource.com book, which is great) I found it cool how he sort of takes a position of like, "the thing I'm speaking about embodies some feminine energy, so I'm going to use "she/her" for it." Would probably still feel weird to do the opposite tho.
If you were my kid, how would you rebel?
@collinofzion Respect. I keep finding Twitter valuable but navigating that line of criticality where it's deeply worth it is tough (for many things, not just Twitter) and sometimes "no" is the answer. I bid you deep pleasure & solid returns wherever you choose to play & invest your attention.
@coladaclan @pragueyerrr hit me 😀
@ben_woodward @Conaw @RoamResearch In the meantime there's slack2roam: (doesn't currently have a bot but someone could build one!)